When things get complicated, we tend to complicate them even more. The reasons are far too many to be discussed here. The only thing I would like to stress is that nobody will ever tell you which way to turn to at a crossroads. And even if they did, you would not listen or even worse, you would have someone to blame afterwards.
Moreover, I cannot preach what I do not always practice. In return, the followings might guide you:
Doina & Ion Aldea Teodorovici - Eminescu
Emeli Sande - Next to me